Communicating

COMMUNICATING (PARENT WITH TEENAGER)

• Use his language & terminology – allow him to use
• Use e-mail, SMS, post-it slips
• Listen more than speak
• Tolerate his wide mood swings from adult to child – don’t react
• Allow his silences on vital issues (but express your disappointment)
• Encourage him to talk about his friends (be non-judgmental)
• Be consistent in exercising your authority
• Show interest in activities that he likes
• Give him space
• Offer to help him, but allow him freedom to choose
• Send him unexpected messages/gifts (and don’t expect response)
• Exhibit a positive mental attitude about yourself
• Share family worries, but reassure that you can handle it
• Don’t ever compare with sibling
• Praise specific acts of his (note, card, gift, public acknowledgement)
• Be a role model in day to day activities
• Bring up topic of concern, be non-judgmental, and ask for his views

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